Korean War Memorials are always on my list to visit when traveling. You see, my Uncle Ara disappeared on Oct. 23, 1951, less than a year into the Korean War. A part of an air mission with nine Super Fortresses, his B-29 bomber was attacked by Soviet MIGs, and it was one of six that did not return. As the bombardier, he was one of the last to parachute out. And at 26, he was never heard from again.

Memorial Day comes around once a year as an official day not to forget these “ultimate sacrifices.” Sometimes, however, a time to remember my Korean War MIA Uncle Ara, your loved ones, and others who never came home can happen on a day other than Memorial Day, too (the last Monday in May in the United States).

As a traveler, memories are triggered when I find, visit or just stumble upon a Korean War Memorial – or any other war memorial for that matter. I stop in my tracks, run my hands over walls of names, watch others interact or react to the memorial, and think about my Uncle Ara Mooradian, whom I never had the honor to meet. At these moments, travel can grab you by the collar and deliver an unexpectedly poignant moment.

These days, I carry the flame of my uncle’s memory, hoping someday the U.S. government office overseeing military recovery will have success in finding out what happened to him. Meanwhile, when traveling somewhere with a Korean War Memorial, I make time for a visit – where emotions will always run high.

Three Korean War Memorials to visit:

War Memorial of Korea; Seoul, South Korea – Not everybody may make it to South Korea. But if you have a family member who was lost in that war, it is worth your while. The War Memorial of Korea is perhaps more of a moving, personal tribute than many in the United States. On a trip to South Korea in 2015 as a part of the “Revisit Korea” program organized by the South Korean government and its Ministry of Patriots and Veterans Affairs. Designed to honor veterans, this trip was the first of its kind for families of U.S. MIAs in “The Forgotten War.” I went in the name of my recently deceased mother (Ara’s youngest sister), but never expected the flood of emotions I felt at the War Memorial of Korea.

Receiving a plaque with Ara's photo at a ceremony in South Korea

Park Sungchoon, South Korea’s Minister of Patriots and Veterans Affairs, presents me with a framed memorial photo of Ara at the Honor and Tribute Ceremony for the Korean War fallen. Every MIA represented in our group had his photo carried by a South Korean soldier.

After a wreath-laying ceremony with our group, we were allowed to wander through an outdoor walkway called the Monuments Hall of Remembrance lined with tablets engraved with the names of Allied soldiers who never came home. I did not truly expect to find my Uncle’s name, but I did. And the emotions swelled up quite unexpectedly as I touched and then ran my fingers across his name. Here we were, some 7,000 miles from his birthplace of California, and his name was engraved on marble tablets never to be forgotten for his “ultimate sacrifice.” I only wish my mother could have been there.

Therese Iknoian crying in front of Uncle Aras name on the Korean War Memorial

My husband, Michael, comforting me as I discover Ara’s name on the wall listing those killed or missing in action during the Korean War at the Korean War Memorial in Seoul, South Korea.

 

HITT Tip: Do take the time to take in the amazing exhibits and the entire Memorial Museum to learn more details about this war. We learned how grateful South Koreans remain to this day for the sacrifices of the Allied Forces.
 

U.S. National Korean War Veterans Memorial; Washington, D.C. – This memorial was dedicated in 1995, on the 42nd anniversary of the war’s armistice. It was designed and financed by private contributions. Nineteen stainless steel statues of soldiers are marching through bushes and granite slabs (meant to represent rice paddies). The statues wear “ponchos” that are seemingly blowing in the wind, adding a sense of movement. There is also a mural wall with etched photographs of the war and a pool of remembrance. Take some time to sit and watch people interact with the memorial. Often, groups of South Koreans will lay wreaths at its base.

One of the Korean War Memorials, this one in Washington DC

Korean War Memorial in Washington D.C.

HITT Tip: One thing missing from the memorial is a wall of names, like at the Wall of Remembrance at the Vietnam Memorial. Funds are still being sought to build such a wall, and donations accepted by the non-profit Korean War Veterans Memorial Foundation here.

Korean War Memorial; San Francisco, California – Perhaps the newest of the Korean War Memorials in the United States, the memorial in San Francisco opened in August 2016. San Francisco was selected for the site by the Korean War Memorial Foundation because it was the embarkation point for so many who were headed to Korea and Far East bases to fight in the Korean War. The memorial stands on a prominent site at the Presidio neighboring the San Francisco National Cemetery. The Presidio is an expansive greenspace with historic building, trails and museums that was, for a couple of centuries, a military base. When it was decommissioned, it was converted to a national park.

Korean War memorial in San Francisco

Korean War Memorial in the Presidio in San Francisco

HITT Tip: If you are looking for a convenient way to get to the Presidio, try its free shuttle from downtown, called PresidiGo. The shuttle service provides transportation seven days a week from key points in San Francisco, including the Embarcadero. There is also a free shuttle to get around the 1,500-acre Presidio park.

Learn More About Our Visit To Honor MIAs in Korea

Read CBS News’ Megan Towey’s story covering our group’s trip to South Korea in 2015 since the 65th anniversary of the start of the war was in 2015. You can also watch a video with the story here.